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Monday, December 12, 2005

December 12th ~ Merry Mazel tov Mubarak


Those of you who have peeked into my blog lately have probably seen the cartoon from my last post.

I have been feeling frustrated by the "You can't say Christmas" messages for years....but this year it's really getting to me.

This is the United States of America, for Godssakes. Opppps I said "god"....I meant for Christssakes. Shoot...that's worse. Uh.....for Oxygenssakes!! That should be safe.

We are supposed to be a melting pot. We are supposed to celebrate individual beliefs. We are supposed to be open to all. What the heck is wrong with being Christian?

I heard someone of the "Christmas isn't PC" ilk recently say that Christmas decorations looked too much like a "carnival."

Uh.
Ok.
So what?
It's a celebration! Does that same person stomp past carnivals complaining about the lights?

I don't want to "push Christmas" on anyone. It's simply a numbers thing. The ratio of Christians in this country is simply larger than the other religions. Who cares?

I'm not some Jerry Farwell following bible thumping far right wing conservative Republican. I'm a middle of the road registered Democrat who believes in freedom of religious expression.

A Menorah isn't just a bunch of candles.

The Muslim Hajj is not just a long walk.

Why can't we celebrate our differences....instead of pointing at them as though those differences are evil? I love learning about the beliefs of other people. I love understanding their ceremonies and celebrations. And I am always struck by the similarities in both Eastern and Western religions.

And you have the right to not believe any of it.

I feel so fortunate to live in a very diverse community...religiously....culturally. I wish everyone had the opportunity to get to know so many different groups of people.

I wish my Jewish friends "L'shana tova" at Rosh Hashanah.

I wish my Muslim friends "Eid Mubarak" at the end of Romandan.

And I wish all the citizens of this earth Peace....ongoing....and on all levels...always.

And, frankly, I think that the percentage of people who are offended by religious expression is pretty small.

But please do not tell me I can't have cake at my birthday party because you don't like frosting. Feel free to have whatever you want at your party...and I'd love an invitation to attend. I promise to be there to celebrate with you.

Merry Christmas

8 Comments:

  • At 5:43 AM, Blogger sttropezbutler said…

    I think one needs to face the fact that this is a bogus issue, pushed to the fore front so heinous things like increased tax cuts for the rich, the renewal of the patriot act and that charmer being put forth to be on the supremes, can be swept under the radar.

    I don't celebrate any of these "events" but wouldn't want anyone else not to.

    STB

     
  • At 6:08 AM, Blogger Trudy Booty Scooty said…

    Gina...and if they haven't, it's getting close!

    STB... you know what...I handn't thought about it that way...and you may very well be right. Although, I do remember some of this same sentiment going on in the Clinton era...but in MUCH smaller doses. hmmmmm That might explain a lot.

     
  • At 3:54 PM, Blogger WarriorM said…

    Great post, Trudy! I just think the whole thing has gotten so flippin' far out of hand. When I wrote a letter for helpers for my son's class at Halloween, the teacher changed "Happy Halloween" to "Happy Harvest". Lame! What's the big damn deal? Lord have mercy! Aren't there bigger issues out there?

    I used to really love the inter-faith services my old church had at Thanksgiving. There were Catholics, Jews, Muslims, Mormons, Buddists, even the Bah-hai faith (didn't spell that right and never heard of the religion until that service). Anyway, it was a celebration of all faiths. A time where we could come together to be thankful and learn about each other. I loved seeing how much we were all similar rather than focusing on our differences.

     
  • At 7:30 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    The push to take Christmas out of, well....Christmas, is real and not really all that new. While I believe it's hardly a majority making the noise..the noise is being made none the less.

    My daughter is 24 now but when she was in grade school she had to write a paper about what Christmas meant to her. One of the first things she brought up in her paper was the birth of Christ. Her teacher asked her to redo it because of the separation of church and state issue. My daughter refused to change it because the paper was suppose to be about what Christmas meant to her and the story of the Christ child was a big part of it for her. I supported her decision and she lost a letter grade on the paper. At the time, I thought i more important for her to stand up for what she believed than to get a good grade on a paper.

     
  • At 6:04 AM, Blogger Trudy Booty Scooty said…

    Mary...I've been to interfaith services like that too...and they are INCREDIBLE. And no one there tried to say "We're right in our beliefs...and you, you sorry sod, are just wrong." It was loving and peaceful.

    Sarah...you're such a good Mom. And what a strong daughter. I think it is the way it is handled in the schools that is really getting to me. They used to have a Holiday music program around this time of year...where the kids sang songs from different cultures and religions...and told stories. They briefly told the story of Christmas, Hannukah, Las Pasadas, Ramadan, Quanza, and one other that I can't remember at the moment. I think it was Buddist. But apparently...even after all of that..a couple of people complained..and so now they have a "diversity" music concert in March that is supposed to be about not being judgemental. The songs were lovely....but they didn't go into all of they ways in which people can be diverse...or there would have been another outcry. It just bugs the heck out of me. Can you tell? Why are people so uptight?

     
  • At 5:30 PM, Blogger sjobs said…

    We need incorporate it all. I teach in the inner city, many of my kids don't celebrate Christmas so we have to be careful. I don't believe it is about political correctness but respecting other peoples way of life. If you didn't believe in Christ how would you feel if it was taught to your kids in a public school receiving public money.

    I am with STB, I truly believe that the Republicans always have something behind their madness.....Let's forget the real issues facing this country.....

    It is difficult but when teaching one has to be careful to respect everyone's culture.

    Mary

     
  • At 7:24 PM, Blogger Trudy Booty Scooty said…

    Mary...

    I understand that perfectly. And I agree completely. I too teach in a school with a very very diverse population. But by respecting the culture of others...do we have to deny our own? I love learning about other cultures and beliefs. I love having my children learn about them too. I am not offened that my children learn about the many cultures in our community. We have a highly Muslim population...and it's great that my kids know what Ramadan is...know what Eid is...and can appreciate their friends more fully because of that knowledge. When my kids are learning about Ancient Chinese Dynasties....or Mayans....or Aztecs....I'm not in an uproar. If people are being "preached to"....that is a whole different ballgame....and I'd be flipping out. But shared knowledge is different. Saying the word "Christmas" outloud..or in a Christmas carol....shouldn't be any different from singing the dradle song. I'm tired of this ethnic and religious whitewashing. We should be enjoying each other's beliefs..not carefully not acknowledging them.

    Understanding and expressing diversity shouldn't mean tip toeing.....it should mean mutual public nods towards all peoples and all beliefs.

     
  • At 8:25 AM, Blogger The Seeker said…

    Screw being PC. I'm soooo over that crap.

     

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